It has become apparent to me as I saunter around the kink space, that many Dommes have not considered that there are other punishments for a slave beyond those that are corporal.
Kinksters are so accustomed to seeing submissive people being being flogged, whipped and more as a punishment that it’s not occurring to them that there are many more ways to punish a man than to deploy sadism.
The reason to broaden your punishment horizons as a Dominant woman, is that not all men are masochists, and for some it may even be a hard limit.
Another reason is, that if the male in question is a raging masochist, he’s going to enjoy his punishment, and then the punishment will fail to keep him in line - because you’ve given him a funishment rather than a punishment.
Some other ways to punish a disobedient male can include;
- Removal of digital privileges (tv/gaming console/phone) for a period of time. Ensure you have collected all devices and he has no access.
- Removal of his right to serve you drinks, food, or in any other way he enjoys servitude. He will cringe as you pour your own drink, knowing that it is supposed to be his job but he has lost his right to it.
- If he’s been particularly naughty, and is failing to learn with your other punishments, you could remove his ownership collar for a period of time. This really hammers home the point to him that he might loose his right to the entire dynamic entirely if he continues to disobey.
- Line writing. Achingly tedious, as long as he doesn’t have a line writing fetish, can also begin to physically ache because most people no longer write very much, and our hands are not used to it - instead we type. The added benefit is that lines can reiterate a mantra of exactly why he’s being punished in the first place. IE Brainwashing/attitude adjustment.
- Essay writing. Just as tedious as lines but the focus is on an essay piece, that should be based around his description of the reason why he is being punished, how he can avoid it in the future, and why exactly he should be following the rule in the first place.
- Removal of treat food or drinks. No alcohol, no sweets, no cakes, no crisps et al. The added bonus of it being healthier for him.
- Army style instant and quick punishments; press ups, nose required to touch the floor. When I demand this my hand goes under his nose, so that I can feel that he literally touched the floor and he cannot get away with cheating. A good quick punishment for cheeky back chats.
- No sexual activity, or if he’s been really really naughty you can consider removing access to yourself entirely for a period of time and force him to be lonely.
- Removal of social rights. He could be told he’s not allowed to go and play his favourite sport this week, or hang with the guys in the pub, and such like.
Remember, if he doesn't like it, that's a good punishment - avoid funishment.
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