The Church of Secret Lives

I first came across Willem on Twitter, on an evening when he seemed to be feeling both reckless and bold. The multiple whiskies he told me he had consumed that evening, being a factor in this - and yet regardless he did maintain a level of control over his choices and what he would and would not consent to.

I believe Willem was in part lured in my direction due to his interest in blackmail; which he is both fascinated with and afraid of at the same time (which is a typical juxtaposition for many a submissive).

I enjoy blackmail as a kink game and make it clear to all expressing an interest that the blackmail is for money, and that once they have consented to blackmail there is no cancelling your order as it were. In short the blackmail only ends once you have relented to the blackmail pressure - and paid whatever sums of money have been demanded of you.

This makes the kink game realistic and indeed frightening, as there is no turning back, there is no changing your mind.

What happens if I don't relent to the blackmail threats and pressure?

I don't recommend it, the blackmail a submissive consents to continues to it's full conclusion and you are at risk of your friends and family members finding out things you will not want them to find out. Don't want them to find out? Simple - pay your blackmailer and breath a sigh of relief that you weren't stupid enough to let your horny little game go that far.

All About Willem

So lets talk more about Willem and his life in the XXXXXX. Lets tell you things he really doesn't want you to know, because despite his many fears, Willem found he can no longer resist the dark lure of being blackmailed by me and has fully consented to it.

Interestingly despite submitting to this blackmailstress he once quoted this in a Church paper;

'Pure became I created, and pure I will always remain. I'd rather burn and turn to white ashes than that I allow myself to be affected by the darkness or by approach the unclean.”

- Kahlil Gibran

And yet here Willem XXXXXXX is, being very much affected by the darkness, being influenced, affected and drawn into a twisted and dangerous game by Dark Dana herself.

Willem XXXXXXX lives in the XXXXXX as I said, in a pretty little spot overlooking a river on the outskirts of XXXX. His full address is XXXXXX, XXXXX – maybe if he is a very good boy, I will send him a Christmas card. And if he's a naughty boy I'll send all of his neighbours a Christmas card full of pictures of him naked wearing a cock cage.

You might think to yourself oh well his face isn't showing in these shots, and so he is safe and anonymous. It doesn't matter, his bathroom is showing - anonymity isn't as easy as you think it is. I don't know about you but I know the general body shape of my friends and family and I certainly know what their bathroom looks like. I do of course have screen grabs of conversations as evidence (should anyone ask me for it) of the connection between his face and these photos.

A Good Little Church Boy

Willem is very involved with his local church and what he'd really not like them to find out is that he's a bi curious man looking for his first same sex experience and that he's become heavily involved on a smutty little website called Squirt.org – for gay hook ups.

The average church goer would probably find his involvement on Squirt extremely distasteful.

Did I encourage him onto this website? Do I help him find said hook ups? Yes I do. It's for his own good, he needs to accept who he is and suck a dick. That doesn't mean he's ready for everyone else around him to find out about all of this, maybe he will never be ready.

Obviously if anyone in his church or any of his family or friends (he has a brother he is very close to for instance) were to happen upon this blog, the jig would be up – news would spread like wildfire and everyone in his life would know. Willem just isn't ready for that.

As always I offer my 'blackmail victims' a get out of jail free card (pricelist), allowing them to cover up their name, photos and the details of their life, before anyone sees them (or before I deliberately send a family member to see them).

One very important thing I like to remind my little blackmail whores, is that this is a dangerous game, which is why it's so exciting.

Excitement is why they agreed to it - they cannot resist the dopamine high of playing with fire, of playing with darkness; Dark Dana.

In the case of this blog, if Willem does not pay super fast to have his vital information and photos covered up, there is a chance someone else will gather together his information and blackmail him too – but this person may not do it within the realms of a consensual kink game, this person may do it ruthlessly with no agreements in force at all ... and for many thousands of pounds.

The moral of the story here, and the thing to stick to when having fun with blackmail, is always pay your blackmailer fast - before your entire life goes to shit. There is no guarantee it won't all go to shit anyway of course, which is part of the kink - the fear and threat of total ruination of your life. You're getting an erection just thinking about it.