Does a male slave have a right to opinions in a 24/7 FLR/TPE dynamic?
It's impossible to have a good FLR/TPE relationship with a man, without good communication being in force - that communication does include his thoughts and opinions also.
While the woman is in control of the relationship, she's also responsible for ensuring the relationship is satisfying for both partners, not just herself only. She cannot ensure that without knowing his thoughts, feelings and opinions.
Submissive men are just as important as dominant women, the fact that they are submissive to a chosen woman does not make them any less important or their opinions any less important.
Yes during a kink play session this may be different and he can be told to shush up and that his opinions don't matter - but that is just part of the play at hand, and bedroom kink play moments are not remotely the same as an entire 24/7 FLR/TPE relationship based on a permanent domme/sub dynamic.
This sort of 24/7 dynamic needs communication on both sides, the submissive partner cannot be constantly year round in subjugated mode where they are not allowed to express themselves. In a 24/7 dynamic he must be allowed to express himself at times, and then in between those times, of course he defers to her decisions always.
He can for instance say "Permission to speak freely" when he needs to express himself, and he needs to be very mindful of not doing that too frequently to the extent that he is repeatedly trying to control his outcomes (ie topping from the bottom).
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