While I appreciate the sentiment, and it’s a feeling that many slaves have and want to encourage within themselves - I do not believe it is emotionally healthy unless it’s just part of a kink play session only.
I would not view it as a healthy mindset within a 24/7 FLR for instance.
There is a big difference between deciding your worth is in pleasing and serving a Dominant Woman, and to gain satisfaction from that, and it being their 'only worth'.
As a Dominant I would be very cautious about encouraging a mindset that submission and service is to a Woman is their 'only worth'.
My slaves do yes believe that to serve me is an important part of their life and it helps to provide them with meaning, but I would never encourage them to believe that this is all they are on this earth - that this is their only contribution to the the planet, to society around them.
Indeed encouraging that seems to me to encourage them to selfishly think of me only and no one else. You should want your slave to be his best self, and that is not his best self.
I’d go so far as to say that anyone that tells a submissive man that his only worth is to serve them and to have no consideration for any other person at all, is being emotionally abusive and that relationship is a toxic and harmful one.
My role as a Dominant is to lead them in the right direction, not just with their tasks and duties, but emotionally also.
Just because a submissive man wants to be feel as though their only worth is to serve another person, it doesn't mean that mindset is necessarily an emotionally healthy mindset that should be encouraged by their Dominant, who after all exists to lead them well in all ways.
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