Looking for your dream Domme for a relationship but can only find Prodommes who want paying? There is a reason for all of that, and I shall explain.
Men seeking a dominant woman need to get it into their heads that kinky alternative people don't always dress in a fetish manner, and kinky people don't always go to munches etc.
She is all around you, not just in this setting, and she may be wearing normal clothes, rather than dressed head to toe in black alternative wear.
She may not even attend munches etc ever. I don't, never have done, and likely never will. I'm 50, not an ounce of vanilla about me and there never has been my entire life. Can anyone tell? No. Can a man find me at a fetish event? No.
Widening Your Horizons
When you limit yourself to the fetish scene only (online and in real life), you are missing out on hoards of women and you are narrowing your horizons. Just because the people around us 'seem' vanilla on the surface, it does not mean they actually are.
I engage in hardcore BDSM activity in my private life, and have never been to a munch in my life, and I never will - thus a man seeking a relationship with me, will only find me in a vanilla setting.
Said man did find me (dressed normally in a normal bar).
But They're All Sex Workers Wanting Money
What you have to consider is that all of these Prodommes (women who are paid to dominate men) have a personal life outside of their career, in which they are probably also dominant.
Prodommes have a career, but they don't charge their actual partners that they meet in real life outside of work. They aren't working 24/7, they have real lives too.
Prodommes don't want to find their life partners at work on Fetlife or X or any other setting in which they are working - they don't mix work with their real life and so they are not open to considering men for relationships while in their work setting.
Come away from these platforms and find them in a vanilla setting to find your dream dominant woman.
My partner found me in a bar, in a normal vanilla setting ... in which I was open to finding a relationship in my real life (outside of work).
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