Blackmail can be used by a Domme to control their submissive by means of threats of things they will not want to happen should they not do as they say.
She does not need to use it as a means to illicit money from you as part of blackmail play.
It's a very powerful method of control that I deploy with most of my slaves, and I personally do not blackmail for money, ever.
You will need to be very careful who you pick to play with, whichever way you decide to play blackmail, as the Domme needs to be mature and sane enough to understand that when you say you no longer wish to be under her control or be blackmailed by her - that the game is over.
No arguments, no veiled threats, no attempts to persuade - it's over.
IE she needs to capable of acting on the withdrawal of your consent.
I thought all blackmail was about extorting money from the victim?
There is a myth that Dommes only blackmail as a means to extort money out of the submissive. While this 'can' be part of the play IF it's agreed between the two parties, it doesn't have to be if neither of them, or one of them do not want this to be part of the play.
Blackmail can be use exclusively for the Dominants control, rather than as a means to illicit money from the 'victim'.
In the case of Prodommes such as myself, yes money must exchange hands for any sort of kink play or Domme/sub relationship, however the Domme can arrange for this to be a set weekly fee rather than blackmailing the money out of her submissive.
My submissive slaves pay a weekly fee with me, I do NOT blackmail money out of them, that is not a style of blackmail play that particularly interests me - however I would consider it if the following rules were adhered to below;
If You Do Want To Play Blackmail For Money Extortion
If you DO ever decide to play blackmail play that intends to blackmail money out of you, this can still work, but you need to set a budget at the start as to what is the maximum can be blackmailed out of you each month or week.
Otherwise the game can get completely out of hand and may result in regret, as the Domme cannot possibly know what you can afford vs what is becoming too much, and so don't make her guess and then complain about it after the event - instead set a budget.
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