(TPE = Total Power Exchange)
It’s no secret that my true joy lies in total power exchange female led relationships, with much high protocol, but what sort of things may one endure (or adore) when in a TPE?
All TPE relationships vary dependent on what the Dominant partner enjoys, but here are examples of some of the things that may be under their control in say for instance an FLR that includes total power exchange
How many items on the list would YOU be happy to have controlled?
1. Orgasm control; she decides whether you are in chastity or not, and She decides when you get to enjoy sexual activity or not.
2. Sleep control; it’s bedtime when she says so, it’s time to get up when she says so. She may even interrupt your sleep if she wants to.
3. Bathroom control; you do not visit the bathroom unless she gives you permission, she may even go as far as to put a lock on the door that you must ask for the key to. This key could even be a security entry pad, that she unlocks digitally from any remote location.
4. Food control; perhaps you must ask permission for treats or alcohol, or maybe you have to ask for permission for every single morsel that goes into your mouth. She may even provide you with a detailed food plan that cannot deviated from.
5. Financial control; your money is not your own, and she decides how where and when it will be spent. She may even go as far as to control your career decisions.
6. Appearance control; your clothing choices, your hairstyle, your facial hair, what weight you are, what level of fitness/muscularity you are required to have. All of these can be controlled by her, and you may be required to report for regular weigh-ins and measurement sessions. Your Domme can also dictate when you do not wears and require you to be fully naked at times. She may also instruct you to wear a collar to signify her ownership of you.
7. Position control; she may deem that you sit or stand in certain positions at certain times of the day, on certain occasions or for punishment. An example being that you are required to sit at her feet on the floor during breakfast time.
8. Service control; providing services for your Domme is incredibly useful for her, and these may take the form of household chores, pouring drinks, doing errands/shopping, or more intimate services such as combing her hair, dressing her or providing sexual services.
9. Social control; deciding who you socialise with, when you socialise and/or where you socialise can also be part of your total power exchange relationship. It’s important that a Domme does not use this control to isolate you from friends and family, as this would be tantamount to emotional abuse rather than a loving Domme/Sub relationship.
10. Leisure time control; the submissive partner may have a series of rules to adhere to for their free time after work and chores. They may be told what movies to watch, whether to read or not, and given parameters on things like how much time on social media they are allowed each day.
An 11th Area To Consider
Is TPE About Micromanagement?
Though some Dommes may opt for this, a TPE relationship does not have to involve micro-managing every single second of the submissive partner’s day.
Most TPE relationships do not go this far, because it would be most likely highly oppressive for even the most devoted of slaves, and in addition so much work for the Dominant partner that the entire relationship would probably become unenjoyable and a burden to the Domme rather than a beneficial union.
Most TPE relationships are between partners who live together, but not always. I’ve achieved TPE relationships at a distance more than once. There are many ways to check on a slave each day using technology such as GPS trackers, video/photo evidence, and surveillance cameras.
Surveillance Over Your Slave
In this instance below, my long distance slave was required to take his surveillance camera away on holiday with him. This camera is set up in his bedroom at home 24/7 and has been for well over a year.
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